Saturday, 14 May 2011

Prayers have been answered.

Woke up this morning feeling worried about Delip and decided to pay him a visit in hospital. Dad arranged for his friend to pick me up from the Teluk Gadong Komutter station and send me to HTAR. The ride from Subang Jaya there took about approximately 25 minutes. Since I like train rides as a kid, wasn't a bad experience.


Unfortunately, they wheeled him into the OT just as I reached the hospital. Spent time with his mom talking to her. Reuben called for updates. At around 1pm, the nurses for Delip's ward brought the trolley bed into the OT and I held my breath. 4 minutes later, out came Delip on it looking dazed (not sure if it was sedation or GA). He managed to smile at me. He was feeling numb probably due to the medication. Immediately, I contacted Reuben with the good news which was a relief. Thank you God for answering my prayers. Spent about 30 minutes in the ward with him and decided to leave him to rest.

I wanted to do something with Han Zhang today e.g. badminton or mcd but he didn't feel like it so I had to figure how to fill my time for the remainder of the day. My dad's friend picked me up and we went for mcd and later he had to do something but he dropped me back home. Reached home almost 4pm and took a nap. Nothing really exciting in the evening. Just being online, MouseHunt and that's about it.

In response to Han Zhang's recent blog post about him being sorry he couldn't meet up with me, friends shouldn't be afraid to tell "NO" if they have to to their friends. And the other person should respect his or her wishes. Only then friendships last. When we don't give each other the space and privacy or time they wish to be left alone or just to be by themselves, you are invading someone's privacy indirectly and that can ruin a friendship. Han Zhang and I have a good friendship going and we understand each other so I respect his wishes and I still treat him as my friend. That's real friendship and I am sure he agrees with me. In other words pal, I understand the space and time you need for yourself at times :)

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